It was the best of times, it was the worst of times

The best time: One week of vacation - relaxing at home, resolving problems with people, reading old books, eating ma’s cooked food, meeting relatives and shopping.

The worst time: Coming back – Finding out a lot of negative issues evolved between friends while you were away.

When I was fixing a part of my life's biggest problems recently, I realized that thinking about the issues didn't help me all these years. When I got down to resolving them, it was rather easy. It was easy because the other person was eager to resolve it too. What stopped this from happening before was our ego. Analyzing several other unresolved issues in my life, I find they are all ego related. I hope my friends are able to resolve their problems on their own and resume the beautiful friendship that they used to share.

10 comments:

Rohit Talwar said...

I'm just glad the vacation has turned out to be memorable.

Take care yo and that ego bit... As of now I feel like going to Ego Cafe. RIGHT AWAY. :D

Kanu said...

All I want to say is Amen...and TOUCHWOOD!

Richa Bhardwaj said...

I'm really, genuinely happy to know that matters got settled. :-)

And yeah, happy birthday once again! :-)

Woodsmoke said...

HBTY because in my part of the world it's still December 21.
It was heartening to read this post. Happy for you, and yeah don't forget "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times".

Butterfly said...

Yes, ego is something which stops us from resolving problems with our friends. Maybe we should try to break our ego and bring back the lost friendship because friends are precious. But, let me tell you another thing,please do not try to force a friendship to return if your friend does not care abt it. If only your friend still cares abt you, you should care too. Otherwise don't. Even living with your ego is better in such caes.

Butterfly said...

Oh, I see that it was your birthday recently. So, Happy Birthday to you.

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Deeps said...

well said sir.............no need to say that i can related to post..........lets hope that things settle down for the best for every1.........
belated happy birthday wishes :)

Deeps said...

sorry for typo..........relate

~ | | OM | | ~ said...

tere dost tere dost rahenge...

ek doosre ke ab kabhi ho payenge ya nai... i guess not !!!