tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post4503707488608493798..comments2023-10-09T19:39:41.810+05:30Comments on Brainbit: In other words "Piece of my mind": What's Totto?Subhadiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13283468219928728416noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-45912261493320880092008-12-22T11:24:00.000+05:302008-12-22T11:24:00.000+05:30@SkeetsThanks. Believe me, I am not exaggerating. ...@Skeets<BR/>Thanks. Believe me, I am not exaggerating. <BR/><BR/>@Butterfly<BR/>Society is what we let it be... if we don't question these practices, they will never change. You are right, it's a business.Subhadiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283468219928728416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-85616152198159974372008-12-20T23:08:00.000+05:302008-12-20T23:08:00.000+05:30What a lot of energy and time is given for packing...What a lot of energy and time is given for packing all those things for the totto! I mean, why work so hard to pack gifts even for the mamimas and kakimas when they vanish after the 'dwiragaman', only to be seen at the next family wedding? Yeah, we do live in a society and its important to maintain good relationships but, this totto business crosses limits!Butterflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16425793291051841001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-87773431780107184732008-12-20T15:41:00.001+05:302008-12-20T15:41:00.001+05:30LMAO your posts are getting funnier by the day...S...LMAO your posts are getting funnier by the day...<BR/>Skeets likes it...<BR/>hehe@gifts liek shoelaces! TOO MUCH!Reeta Skeeterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09955768296326121072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-73918921584922800382008-12-20T15:41:00.000+05:302008-12-20T15:41:00.000+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Reeta Skeeterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09955768296326121072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-49593156191835086872008-12-20T13:53:00.000+05:302008-12-20T13:53:00.000+05:30Ouch, that was just a suggestion.Ouch, that was just a suggestion.Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469564318863746009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-74109095261917580742008-12-19T10:15:00.000+05:302008-12-19T10:15:00.000+05:30@RTIf I did everything in my life that others beli...@RT<BR/>If I did everything in my life that others believed should be done, I would not be me, would I? Think about it.<BR/><BR/>@Arpita<BR/>I should get married so that my friends can read about it on my blog... yeah, right! Get Sooraj Barjatiya movie DVDs.<BR/><BR/>About dowry vs. giving willfully, my point is, even the willful giving is now blowing out of proportions due to different pressures, relative pressure and show off pressure being the prime culprits. I don't see any ideological difference between the two; hence, I don't support both of them.Subhadiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283468219928728416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-50197252645040552472008-12-19T01:12:00.000+05:302008-12-19T01:12:00.000+05:30loved ur post.. it was funny[:)]infact i think u s...loved ur post.. it was funny[:)]<BR/>infact i think u shud get married now so dat v guys can read another blog about ur experience in ur marraige[;)][:D] hehe ,secondly your title just forced me to read ur blog..but later i realised it wasnt toto but tottho.. i gues bangla te aita e bole[:D]<BR/>but i blive one thing ie.. there's a difference b/w dowry and giving something on ur wish.. xchanging totho is totaly on the family's wishes.. if they can,they will, there is no compulsion... and dowry is somthing which u demand.. 4 me its an insult to the brides as well as the groom's family if they blive in dowry sys.. cos ultimately they are buying and selling a girl.. So spending money on ur wishes and spending money due 2 compulsion is different..<BR/><BR/>hey sorry i got ur comment deleted dunno how [:O] anyway.. i guess u had enquired about the kid..if imnt wrong (cos i cudnt read the whole comment ). wel it was taken near my college[:)]ChAsMeBadDoOrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17990590455751418134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-28494117900766000412008-12-19T00:59:00.000+05:302008-12-19T00:59:00.000+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.ChAsMeBadDoOrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17990590455751418134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-75365739916945104902008-12-18T23:53:00.000+05:302008-12-18T23:53:00.000+05:30Get married. Handcuffs may just do wonders to that...Get married. Handcuffs may just do wonders to that thing we otherwise call <I>life</I>. Think about it.Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469564318863746009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-79268958304672816902008-12-18T11:29:00.000+05:302008-12-18T11:29:00.000+05:30@Deeps:-) Experienced volunteers required :P@AroBe...@Deeps<BR/>:-) Experienced volunteers required :P<BR/><BR/>@Aro<BR/>Being the attention seeker that you are don't you like that your name is dragged everywhere?<BR/><BR/>What unhappy things in your life? If I am guessing the right thing, I am so happy :P<BR/><BR/>And you are right about the true meaning of Totto being lost.Subhadiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283468219928728416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-37613549417195351282008-12-18T06:47:00.000+05:302008-12-18T06:47:00.000+05:30# Aro.. BC teri pehle hogi... # Subbu... haan bhai...# Aro.. <BR/><BR/>BC teri pehle hogi... <BR/><BR/># Subbu... haan bhai, wo project to chalu hai ekdum :P <BR/><BR/>aur mera, to rab hi rakha :D<BR/><BR/># Deepu... <BR/>bhai tu banja project manager... teri ek successful deliverable bhi churn out kar chuka hai... <BR/><BR/>:D~ ॐ ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14443242533831250639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-15121597477507980432008-12-18T00:06:00.000+05:302008-12-18T00:06:00.000+05:30BC why is my name getting dragged....I fully suppo...BC why is my name getting dragged....<BR/><BR/>I fully support your bachelorhood as for me new things have happened ......and to say that I am unhappy is an understatement..but then life is like that....<BR/><BR/>hmmmm now the toto thing is to make sure that the bride does not feel out of place in her new home however with time we have forgotten the actual meaning and it has become a show-off stuffArohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867220988258149746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-13683912831834486592008-12-17T16:00:00.000+05:302008-12-17T16:00:00.000+05:30wah kitne sare project chal rahe hai.....in sare p...wah kitne sare project chal rahe hai.....in sare projects ka project manager kaun hai :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-18580757120042118182008-12-17T10:29:00.000+05:302008-12-17T10:29:00.000+05:30@RBNehi yaar... har jagah, ek hi haal hai. @TanuOf...@RB<BR/>Nehi yaar... har jagah, ek hi haal hai. <BR/><BR/>@Tanu<BR/>Of course it's lousy business, and demeaning. Laughter challenge... err... all posts are by me, I will win. <BR/><BR/>@Om<BR/>Pehle ek project to khatam karo - Aro ki shaadi. Uske baad aur ek ongoing project hai - teri shaadi. Yeh sab ho jaye to naya project lenge. Specifications will be provided at the time of project implementation. Aur bol :PSubhadiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13283468219928728416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-17379530534098416592008-12-17T06:57:00.001+05:302008-12-17T06:57:00.001+05:30Oh waise toto se BhejaFry ka ek dialogue yaad aa g...Oh waise toto se BhejaFry ka ek dialogue yaad aa gaya :)~ ॐ ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14443242533831250639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-74753784196283377922008-12-17T06:57:00.000+05:302008-12-17T06:57:00.000+05:30ab bhai dekho aisa hai... ke rishtedaar to kuch na...ab bhai dekho aisa hai... ke rishtedaar to kuch na kuch bolenge hi... aur rahi baat teri, to teri to ho ke rahegi... <BR/><BR/>itta eligible bachelor hai tu... lagta hai tere liye bhi ad dena padega chai ki dukaan par :P<BR/><BR/>bata, bengali ladki hi chahiye ya kuch aur kahin aur ki bhi chalegi?~ ॐ ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14443242533831250639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-32343483203238039182008-12-17T06:38:00.000+05:302008-12-17T06:38:00.000+05:30ha ha nice One "It's the happy families sending ha...ha ha nice One "It's the happy families sending happy gifts to happify others" <BR/><BR/>this was the best until as you aptly realize that this totto business is pretty lousy. Good that u think it's demeaning also to your groom-hood. Unfortunately many guys even in today's think, its just fun and tradition!!!!<BR/><BR/>Until I read the piece i read the title as 'TO TO' and was wondering 'uhh' what's this ! <BR/><BR/>you should make your blog laughter challenge, your post's are pretty funny.. :)I amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14768569924039692072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20130684.post-78461124723027540452008-12-16T22:43:00.000+05:302008-12-16T22:43:00.000+05:30LOL! And I thought it was only the north Indian (P...LOL! And I thought it was only the north Indian (Punjabi) wedding where chachis and mamis sat and counted the number of gifts, etc. It's good to know that this form of entertainment exists there as well. :)RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01916688487554269929noreply@blogger.com